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Reflections From a Therapist
Insights from a trauma-informed therapist on trauma, anxiety, healing, and the work of becoming more at ease within yourself.
Why You Shut Down or Get Overwhelmed So Fast
If you shut down or get overwhelmed faster than other people, nothing is wrong with you. This post explains why your nervous system reacts so quickly, how trauma shapes these patterns, and what actually helps you feel grounded, steady, and safe again.
Signs Your Nervous System Is Dysregulated (And What You Can Do About It)
Many adults live in a chronic state of “on edge” without realizing their nervous system is stuck in survival mode. This post helps you understand the signs of dysregulation and what you can do to feel calmer, more grounded, and more in control.
Why Am I So Self-Critical? A Trauma-Informed Explanation
Many adults are hard on themselves without fully understanding why. Self-criticism is not a flaw. It is a survival strategy shaped by early experiences, trauma, and a nervous system that learned to stay on alert. This post explains why your inner critic formed, why it feels so persistent, and how healing can help you relate to yourself with more clarity and compassion.
What Is a Trigger? And Why It’s Not “Just Overreacting”
Triggers aren’t signs that you’re overreacting. They’re body-based responses shaped by past experiences that your nervous system hasn’t fully processed yet. This post explains what triggers really are, why they feel so intense, how they show up in everyday life, and why your reactions make sense. You’ll learn how your body tries to protect you and how healing can help you feel steadier, safer, and more in control.
EMDR for Anxiety: Why It Works When Traditional Talk Therapy Doesn’t
If you feel stuck in worry, overthinking, or constant “what if” thoughts, EMDR can help in a way that talk therapy alone often cannot. Anxiety lives in the body, not just in the mind, and EMDR helps your nervous system finally relax and feel safe. This blog explains how EMDR works for anxiety, why it helps so many adults who feel overwhelmed, and what the process is really like.
Hi, I’m Nikki
I’m a a trauma-informed therapist in West Chester, PA, specializing in EMDR, anxiety, and the deep work of healing self-criticism. This blog is where I share practical tools, nervous system education, and compassionate guidance to help you understand your inner world, feel less overwhelmed, and build the foundations for real, lasting change. Whether you’re exploring therapy for the first time or looking to deepen your healing, I’m glad you’re here.