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Reflections From a Therapist
Insights from a trauma-informed therapist on trauma, anxiety, healing, and the work of becoming more at ease within yourself.
How to Stay Regulated When Your Kids Aren’t
Parenting can activate your nervous system faster than anything else. When your child melts down, snaps, or shuts down, your body often reacts before you can think. This does not mean you are failing. It means your system is overwhelmed. In this post, you will learn why your child’s big emotions feel so triggering, what is happening inside your body in those moments, and how to stay grounded even when everything feels chaotic. You will also learn how trauma, anxiety, and ADHD can make regulation harder and what actually helps you build calm from the inside out. If you feel like parenting wipes you out or pulls you into reactions you do not want, this guide will help you feel less alone and more supported.
Hi, I’m Nikki
I’m a a trauma-informed therapist in West Chester, PA, specializing in EMDR, anxiety, and the deep work of healing self-criticism. This blog is where I share practical tools, nervous system education, and compassionate guidance to help you understand your inner world, feel less overwhelmed, and build the foundations for real, lasting change. Whether you’re exploring therapy for the first time or looking to deepen your healing, I’m glad you’re here.